Monday 16 June 2014

Once Met, Never Forgotten.


It has been 10 months since I left Mthatha, South Africa where I worked as a volunteer for Project Trust and not a day goes by that I don’t think about my kids at Bethany Home or the incredible people who I worked with.  I had the absolute pleasure to work with some truly inspiring people throughout my year there.  One of which was Sister Mary Paule.  Sister founded Bethany Children’s Home and has been actively involved in it ever since.  As time went on she stepped down as director but always stayed on the board of directors and kept a very keen interest in the home and her children; as well as living in the convent next to Bethany Home.

Yesterday evening I heard the devastating news that Sister Mary’s car had been hijacked and that she was missing.  They discovered her car abandoned on the side of the road but no sign of her.  Unfortunately this morning her body was discovered in a nearby river, the cause of death hasn’t been released but a gun was also found so I think most can put two and two together.  Sister Mary was a huge part of my year in South Africa and the most inspirational person I have ever had the pleasure to know and work with.  She gave her life to support and help those less fortunate than her and I just wish that everyone could have known her to learn a lesson or two.  Whenever I was in need of support or even just a chat, I could always rely on her to bring my spirits up; there was something very calming and soothing about being around her.  I remember the first time I met her and knowing I was from London asked how the London 2012 Olympics were, and then she proceeded to roll off lots of facts about the games and the winners of the medals.  It never ceased to amaze me how up-to-date she was with everything that was going on around her, despite living in a more rural part of South Africa.

My heart goes out to everyone who knew and loved Sister Mary. I only knew her for a year but she had such a huge impact on me personally, I couldn’t even begin to thank her enough when I left Bethany Home.  Although there is anger at the situation and it seems so unjust that this should happen to such a lady, I believe she wouldn’t want people to dwell on that, but carry on the work she spent her whole life doing.

Without any doubt Sister Mary touched and saved hundreds, if not thousands of lives through her selfless work and that is something that should be remembered and celebrated.  May she rest in peace.

Most insirational person I have ever met - May 2013