Sally's Year in South Africa with Project Trust: August 2013

Sunday 11 August 2013

The End of the Road

So my time at Bethany Home has come to an end. I can’t quite believe it; these last 12 months have flown by! But without a shadow of doubt, this year has been the most incredible, humbling and best year of my life! I’ve learnt more about myself and grown in so many ways. It hasn’t always been easy, I had to face some huge challenges, which really tested my strength; but then again I've made some of the best memories that will stay with me forever! Each and every child I have met this year has touched my heart in such a positive way; their strength, courage and beauty never ceases to amaze me. They show me unconditional love and trust even though they have been let down by adults in their past. I can’t begin to describe how much I will miss all my umhle abantwana (beautiful children)! Watching them grow and develop everyday is a once in a lifetime. I’m proud to say that I spent a year of my life in Africa and I can safely say, everyone at Bethany have given me more than I could have ever given them. Bethany Home Place of Safely will always have a very special place in my heart and there is no doubt that I will be back again!!
Even though it’s incredibly sad to leave and I would give an arm and a leg to stay, I know that my time is finished and I have to let the next volunteers have the same incredible experiences. I wish them all the best of luck and please look after all my children. They deserve all the love in the world and more!!

I was reading a poem the other day and this verse really describes my feelings for Africa:

I am an African,
Not because I live on its soil,
But because my soul is at home in Africa
I am an African,
For her blue skies take my breath away,
And my hope for the future is bright,
I am an African,
For her people greet me as family,
And teach me the meaning of community,
I am an African,
For her wilderness quenches my spirit,
And brings me closer to the source of life.

60 Things I Will Miss About Africa...

1. My children

2. Peoples energy

3. Beautiful friendly faces

4. Having my own little flat

5. Sun all year around

6. Coffee Bay

7. Travelling

8. Mama Pondo

9. Hospital visits

10. Everyone’s mutual love for Nelson Mandela

11. Peoples positivity in every situation

12. Nandos

13. Nightshifts

14. The beautiful Transki

15. My African family

16. Living with 70 children

17. Being called Mama

18. Loving each child like they are my own

19. Knowing they love me no matter what

20. Trying to understand Xhosa

21. Day trips with the kids

22. Biltong

23. Castle Lite Beer

24. Watching my children grow

25. Not seeing Qhawe take her first steps L

26. Sundowners

27. Sending news home

28. The African night sky

29. Rose & Benie

30. Learning a new culture and way of life

31. The verity South Africa has to offer

32. The incredible people I’ve met travelling

33. Flat parties

34. Cape Town

35. South Africa Project Trust 12/13 Country Group

36. Driving a battered Avanva (I’ve learnt to love her though!)

37. My children singing and dancing

38. Putting the kids to bed and goodnight kisses

39. Bathing the babies

40. Feeding times

41. Being proposed to on a regular basis by African men

42. My braids!! (With they were acceptable for white people in the UK!)

43. Backpackers

44. African music

45. African dancing

46. African parties!

47. Being a Project Trust volunteer

48. The ‘Rainbow Nation’

49. Braaing

50. 2 minute noodles

51. Being a part of something as incredible as Bethany

52. Learning something new about myself everyday

53. Debonaries pizza nights

54. Long Life UHT milk (NAAATT – give me some fresh milk in my face!)

55. Spoiling my kids

56. Walks around the compounds with my kiddies “VUNA WALKIE!”

57. Movie nights with the kids

58. South Africa

59. Mthatha

60. MY HOME <3

Wednesday 7 August 2013

Wimpy Trip

On Wednesday morning 30 children from Bethany Home were treated to lunch at Wimpy in town. This trip was kindly funded by my mum and her work colleagues after she did a collection before coming to visit me. So a HUGE thank you to everyone who donated from Pfizer, the kids had such a great time and it was a perfect way to treat my kids in my last week!!

After we dressed the 30 children in matching tracksuits, we squeezed them all into 2 cars!! (very illegal in the UK but very legal in South Africa!). Here are a few pictures from our lovely trip out: